I am a brownskinned Black girl and feel that I would have an easier time dating if I were lighter in complexion. I notice that even white guys tend to slightly prefer lightskinned Black women if they are available. I just want to know what shade do you prefer when dating black women?
It's just that I suffer from self esteem and confidence issues stemming from feeling rejected by men because of my skin tone. Sometimes at work when I see men approaching lightskin, mixed and white women more often to chat with I'd get so upset that I can't even concentrate. It triggers feelings of inadequacy and rejection. It makes me so angry & I feel worthless
Most Helpful Guy
This is the skin tone I like on black girls: