I want opinions, like real opinions... Both sides of the lines do this but I'm only focusing on females today since we don't hear a lot of females complaining about being in the friend zone... Why can't a guy be your best friend and your boy friend? It's a concept i still cannot grasp to this day... What is it about dating your best friend that you can't do? I mean you know him, you know his heart and character so whats the problem? Are you afraid it won't work? because I feel like if that's the case it's not a valid excuse because a relationship is two people working with each other to make each other better, its a two way street, if both parties are in it, its possible there is no end.. so what the deal?
Ladies only, guys if you want to chime in, feel free but this is meant for ladies
Most Helpful Girl
It certainly can happen. If you can't be friends with your boyfriend, why bother being in a relationship with him? Friendship is an important foundation for relationships - the strongest relationships I know of were built upon great friendships. I married a guy who has been my best friend for many years.
I think some people are afraid of putting their friendship on the line once things start to move to another level. And it's mostly women who are afraid of this, which is why guys seem to be the only ones complaining about the "friend zone".1