Okay so there's this guy that asked me out recently and I'm not attracted to him mentally or physically. When he asked my out I tried to let him down easy by telling him no, I do not have a boyfriend, but I have someone I'm talking to. He still didn't take the hint! He kept following me around and hugging me whenever he saw me around campus. If I tried to maneuver around his hugs, he'd be like "What? You don't want to give me a hug?" I don't want to be mean and say "No, I really don't" But I'm honestly tired of him. It's burden having to avoid him all over campus. I haven't seen him at all outside of school, but what do I do if he continues that behavior? How do I let him down easy?
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You basically told him no nicely, and that you're interested in another guy and he wouldn't accept it. Then he constantly hounds you and hugs you when you don't like it, to the point you're having to go out your way to avoid him... And you're worried about his feelings? Does he give a shit about yours? No.
Guys like him need to be told harshly. You can't be nice forever with guys like him.3
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