I've been dating a younger guy (six years) who is broke. I don't mind paying for some things, but he made a joke about moving into my apartment. I don't plan on letting this happen-especially not without splitting rent. I only make about 32K and can't support both of us. How can I be clear that I'm not going to support him?
How to I make it clear to a guy that I'm not a sugar mama?
What Guys Said 2
Oh my gosh! You scared me for a second... my girlfriend is 6 years older than me! But then I read the rest of your post and phew... SAFE!
Yeah... don't let him get comfortable. Remember you have to care for yourself too! But this is something you really should talk about. Just find some way to bring it up and talk about it.1
What Girls Said 3
I once dated a guy who was broke while I had a great paying job and the way I dealt with it was I would never let him pay for me but I also wouldn't pay for him unless it was a special occasion like his birthday or something.1
don't support him. tell him he can't move in. you are an adult, if you don't stick up for yourself it's your problem.1
Tell him he cannot move in until you can share the load equally. I would put a few job postings that work with his skills, have a decent paycheck and watch for what he does. If he is serious he will work toward becoming an equal partner and if not then dump his ass.1
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