Recently, I've been thinking a lot about a situation I was involved in mid last year. There was a girl who I developed a crush on and hoped to enter a relationship with. I told one of my friends about my crush and added in extra lovey dovyness just for fun. Unsurprisingly, she decided to tell my crush about this the same day. Although this didn't really create any awkwardness between us or hinder the process of us getting to know eachother, I feel like it may be responsible for the fact that we never became anything more than friends. Would things have played out differently if my blabbermouth friend hadn't revealed my crush or would it not matter much?
- I doubt it made much of a differenceVote A
- Depends (I'll explain in my comment)Vote B
- It probably killed a potential relationshipVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I think it depends on your crush. I have a crush on this guy who I'm friends with. I didn't want to make things awkward so I didn't want to tell him but one day I was texting with my cousin and I accidently sent a text about my crush to my crush. I was sure it was going to make things awkward but it didn't. When I saw him the next day he said he thought he was crushing a little on me too. Now we talk and text often and we're getting a little closer as time goes on. As I said before, it depends on your crush. If that person is willing to give you a chance like my crush did, I don't see why it would ruin a potential relationship. Actually, I feel like it would help more than it would hurt. What I mean is that if you tell that person you like them they are going to consider you and if they don't like anyone else they are very likely to be open to get to know you better. 😅 sorry for the long response0
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