I recently met this guy. We were going to start a friends with benefits friendship but after having sex and hanging out (no sex) together I got confused and started ending up really liking him.
We both decided to stop having sex.
We still hang out. We always have so much fun together but it is hard because I am still attracted to him and want more.
I end up sending a text saying I can't be friends with him anymore, half explaining why, would have preferred to do it person but was not sure when I was going to see him again.
It has been a day. No response. Kind of expected that... Kind of hurt a bit he never responded. Probably did not know how to act or what to say...
Never had been in the situation before. I could not help how I was feeling. Just did what was right for me.
Guess just let it go for now?
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You have made a wise, mature decision on your heart's part, sweetie, and if he isn't Into anything but 'Always have so much fun together' and nothing More, nothing less, it is best to end it before you Could Again------Start a friends with benefits friendship. It could very well just 'happen' in a blink of an eye and put your poor heart in a more precarious way and want to make you Stay even longer, finding it harder to leave next time around.
Think of yourself. Don't put you or your heart on a sleeve where it could end up a full circle down a beaten path of problems. You did 'What was right for me' and if he has a change of heart as to how you feel and what you want, he will either come to you with his tail between his legs and agree to the terms or just let sleeping dogs lie Where... No response.
I am sure from where I am sitting that as much as on your end 'Kind of hurt a bit he never responded,' he is feeling the same thing in Not being able to push a button on his part because of his own broken heart.
Good luck and Happy New Year, dear. xx0
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