Basically a guy I've been seeing blew me off over Christmas and new year but I know he suffers from depression and he said this is why he didn't talk to me for a week and a half and has apologised. But he did go out with his friends on one of those nights instead of seeing me and so despite his two apologies I have been ignoring him.
So am I right or should I be more forgiving cos he has depression?
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if you have depression it is easier to just hang out with some friends then to be intimate with someone. it sounds like he wants to hang out with you but maybe he is worried you won't like him because he is depressed, maybe he doesn't really care that much about what his friends think so it is more safe to hang out with them. I am depressed. When I like a girl I don't want to be around them because I am worried they will eventually find me out. i do want to be around them but it feel like the more I am with them the greater then chance that they will realize i am nothing and move on... maybe he has similar realistic fears?12