Most guys find out within a month of knowing me because the topic of sex comes up and I get all silent and just blush until there's an awkward silence. Then the guy asks if I am a virgin and of course I tell him the truth...
Then one of 2 things Always happens: he's very interested in seeing me more often in hopes of having sex Or he slips away because it's overwhelming.
Before I even get to relationship status things go sour once the sex talk comes. I just wish that I could get to know a guy for a few months without him knowing my (lack of) sexual history.
I want to lose it to a bf who's not just looking for sex but it's been almost impossible to find!
Most Helpful Guy
im 20 and virgin too. And you should not be ashame, nor proud.
BUT, if the guy is already talking about sex in the first date or so, maybe you are not searching at the right place?
Like, what im looking into a woman is a shy, faithful, sweet, lovely girl. Im not gonna search into clubs or things like that.
But at least, I love your mentality :) Not wanting to waste your virginity to a jerk, waiting for the right one. Your the girl version of me :) ) at least about that)1
Most Helpful Girl
Stop talking about sex so early0