Met a guy online via a friend. We flirted for months and he'd call almost every day. We clicked and would laugh a lot. I was an idiot and put off dates due to my insecurities. We both started getting head fuc*ed because of the odd situation so we'd both get jealous and we'd fall out and not talk. One would always contact the other out of the blue, we'd agree just friends now because we fall out when it turns romantic. We'd eventually start flirting again without realizing and start chatting about sexual stuff we like!! It's gone on over 4 months now and we've gone round in circles at least 6 times! Why can't we chat simply as friends? Because i'm clearly not confident enough in myself to have a relationship just yet... i'm in therapy due to an abusive ex... but I can't just cut him out of my life. What do we do? He'll meet a new girl at some point and it will hurt me a lot even though i'm not ready for a bf yet.
Why are we going round in circles? What to do?
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You both have some issues.
From what you said I don't think he will exactly leave you.
Yeah there's some risk, but that's a natural thing.
I wouldn't increase the relationship just because he might fly.
Right now you have to concentrate on loving yourself again.
Keep in touch with him, follow your heart by using your head.0
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