I've been seeing this guy for about a month and he'a driving me a bit mad: he's chatty and down to hang out when I contact him, but has never contacted me first or asked to see me again since our first date. And I'm lucky it I get a response from him in a timely manner or to something that isn't a direct question.
I told him it makes me unsure if he wants to see me and that I don't want to do all the work, & he apologised and said he didn't mean that. He also said he'a not looking for a relationship, which is fine bc I'm not either. But he hasn't fixed the problem, & I haven't heard from him since I saw him Sat (no response to a "thinking of you" text or to a couples links I sent on facebook).
My ex was a lot of work, so this isn't new to me... but for th life of me I can't tell if he likes me lol. Should I just keep playing it cool or does he not like me and should I move on?
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I would just move on... You both said to each other that you aren't looking for a relationship, so I'm not really sure what you expect? You're sort of sending him mixed signals, saying that you are not looking for a relationship but then sending couples links. You're probably confusing him because from your description, I'm not even sure what you want.2