I don't get to see my long distance bf so it's only once a month we met up last night and had a lovely night but today he's been so moody about work , very negative , he even said I've got to laugh or I'll commit suicide on my way home :/ ... I feel down from all of this , I've tried to comfort him make him feel better but no he's moody about work :( what do I do?
How do I deal with this , he's so negative it's getting me down?
What Guys Said 3
A relationship can be effected really badly by a bad job or work situation. Encourage him to find something better and explain it may help him and even you!
I made the mistake of letting a crap job bring myself down and with it I lost my relationship. If I could speak to your boyfriend that's what I would say.0
He sounds manipulative but that's sad. I get suicidal but if I ever had a SO I would never make her feel bad and in a tough position like that.
Some people don't know how good they have it and just take it for granted.
Or he could be extremely stressed and just needs to know you're there for him, which is probably more likely0
if he does this with just work, he could be like me. i just hate working with every fiber that i have, so no matter how happy i am in life, ill always have a bad mood when im going to my shit job, so i could even say the exact same thing. jokingly of course... it would not mean im emotionally manipulative or anything0
What Girls Said 2
Hello there. first of all take a deeeep breath.
Now, men stress a lot about their jobs. they feel that their job defines them and if they are good at what they do, they are happy.
Since your guy is feeling so low the best you could do is to tell him that you believe he will get past this, show that you believe in him! encourage him but don't talk to him too much about it. leave him work through this by himself (he is a man he needs to feel he is strong enough on his own) but still be there for him. don't be his mother though!!0
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