I am in tears crying my eyes out. Why would my boyfriend do this? What should I do? (Page 2)
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Hi, I'm really sorry that happened. That is so terrible I would never even think to do such a thing. Ahh he had the nerve to do that to you someone who is trying to be intimate with that is so bad.
To me that feels like a crime! so hurtful and bad...
on man I feel so blue now
Don't get yourself near mean guys like that. That was incredibly insensitive of him!
There are guys who don't care about the size of your breasts or even prefer them small, even if they are a select few. I hope you find that special man. I pray you do and I hope people are not mean to you in your school.
Don't ever think you are ugly! If you lack self-esteem you will miss the right man even when he comes by. Just stay away from mean people.
First things first, you've got to stop crying. I know it helps you feel better but crying won't help you and it doesn't help you think straight. Just calm down. Now to be blunt, your boyfriend is a little bitch. If you don't show up a school tomorrow, people will just laugh at you. Show up at school, smile, and if anyone brings it up just laugh like it never phased you. Usually I try to be the voice of reason and I'm against revenge, but what he did to you was really messed up. He was your boyfriend, and he embarrassed you publicly, by making fun of your insecurities. Just go to school tomorrow, give him the bra back and tell him, "I think you need it more than me since your such a little bitch" and write on the inside of the cup "Have fun being single!" You don't have to do that, but you can't just let people walk all over you. You'll find another boyfriend. I promise you.
I don't care who callms me a body shamer, Kim Kardashian looks like a mutant. I really mean that. Her ass, when photoshopped, looks like it's gargantuan, as in some radiation has leaked and caused it to grown in odd ways, her tits are bulbous and oiled and totally out of proportion with the rest of her photoshopped form. In reality the girl is fat, not curvy, she's as 'curvy' as I am (and even I have a smaller ass than that monster!).
Dump this vile child you are dating, this will not end well for you if you don't, he will continue to have no respect for you. How pathetic is he that he dates girls he doesn't even seem to like? He's a loser who thinks embarrassing someone he is supposed to care for is funny and will impress his friends. In ten years time you will look back at this and laugh at how bothered you were by the disgusting boy you dated while he faps away to heavily edited photo's of women he will never meet. You will come out better than him from this.
Be proud of your little boobs and im not taking the piss as im a Acup too best thing about small boobs you can run down the road without getting knocked out by them when your older they dont meet your kneecaps and you dont get backaches :) as for your asshole of a so called bf if i was u i think i would of knocked him out he would of been embarrassed but i would dump him if i was u for doing that I've never heard a boy do that to his gf there's lots of guys that would be interested in you dont just take the first offer that comes a long just because u think your ugly i bet you not chin up
Wow what a straight out jerk... he's definitely immature and doesn't deserve you. Him trying to embarass you in front of people is worse.. but from now I know you may feel afraid of what if you dnt find another guy, but you are young and trust me guys who truly care will love you the way you are. I'm slim and a size c cup and my guy always tells me he loves mine. So see stop worrying that guy you were dating is a dumb. . let him go and never talk to him he isn't doing anything to benefit your life
I've never been the type to tell someone to dump someone, but in this case I think it calls for it. He sounds extremely immature. He purposely humiliated you in front of people just to get a laugh. That's not boyfriend material. Even at your age it's immature. I remember being in High School, it hasn't been that long and none of the guys I knew would ever humiliate their girlfriends like that. If a guy truly cares about you, he doesn't care about your boob size. Also, small boobs are not ugly. You need to be with a guy who appreciates you and makes you feel better about yourself. Get rid of the loser.
How do you even find guys like that? Dump him, don't talk to him, avoid him.
He was the only boy who ever asked me to be his girlfriend. No boys ever pay attention to me. When my boyfriend asked me out I was so happy because finally someone thought I was beautiful. But he does not. I feel so ugly I hate my body and small boobs. I feel like no boy will ever like me.
Don't worry, there are people who fetishize small breasts too. This wasn't a lucky find.
Let's completely disregard someone's facial features and body shape.
Let boob size only determine whether you a attractive or not.
Sure, boobs are an attractive feature whether big or small (different men are into different things ).
but boobs alone doesn't make someone attractive /unattractive.
Break up with him.
He never really cared about you
why is this piece of shit your BOYFRIEND? You're boobs are fine. I don't know where you live but it sounds horrible. No one gets made fun of for small boobs anywhere where I have lived. If it's a choice between that idiot & no boyfriend, pick no boyfriend. Never settle. Not worth it
i am sorry but how you girls find this kind of idiots? and pls! stop calling yourself ugly.. and who said that small boobs are ugly? no matter what it is a man has to be gentle to his girl.. and he did that in front of his friends? he is lucky because i wasn't at there when he did that.. just dump him and move on! if he is acting like this.. why the hell you need him? for feel humiliated? there will be always guys! i am sure you can find better one! and you deserve better one..
No boy has ever asked me out. When he did, I was happy that a boy finally liked me. I thought he was different. He is my first boyfriend. All the boys in my school say small boobs are ugly. I feel that no boy will ever want me I hate my small boobs.
First of all, small boobs are not ugly. Second of all, your boy has a lot of nerve to give you such a gift AND to tell everyone to see the present. Is he stupid or something? He apparently is. You should break up with him since he appears very immature and not very bright.
He was the only boy to ever ask me out. All the boys say that small boobs are ugly. I thought he was different. I was so happy when he asked me out because I thought it would never happen. I am a shy girl with small boobs. Small bum. Skinny. Short. The boys in school only like curvy girls like Kim Kardashian. I feel so ugly and now stupid for thinking any boy will actually like me. I hate my body I hate my small boobs so much.
Well, he won't be the only boy to ask you out. Besides, wouldn't you rather have a man than a boy? You are not ugly or stupid. Move on from this idiot and find a caring man that will treat you like a queen.
He is the worst boyfriend ever and doesn't deserve such a nice girl. This is pure cruelty and you should leave him immediately. Small boobs are cute and can be very attractive to! Dont worry about your body you will find the right guy for you when the time comes. For now stay away from this asshead. He has done nothing to deserve you and certainly doesn't love you.
Dump him. Not even worth another minute of your time to consider keeping him around.
I cannot stop crying. I hate my body. I hate my small boobs. I know they are ugly. But why would he do that? I feel like I will never find anyone. He is my first boyftiend. Boys never ask me out.
Don't hate your body, or your boobs. Here's the thing. Bodies can change, so how you look now isn't necessarily how you'll always look.
As for him, he did it because he's immature, inconsiderate, and clearly doesn't care about your feelings. None of those things are good qualities in a person, or a friend, and much less a boyfriend. Even if he's your first boyfriend, I think it's better off to be single and happy, than in a relationship and be mistreated.
Also, since you said "first" boyfriend, I think you know that, he's not the guy you'll end up with. You deserve better. Hopefully your second, or third, or fourth boyfriend, will know better and know to treat you with the care, consideration, and respect you deserve.
I would dump him, this just shows that he has no respect over you.
A real man doesn't care about how you look or the sizes of your breast.
Be happy with what you have. I am a DD-cup but I can guarantee you that you would like it. I can never dress as I want to because boys will stare at them all day so I walk around with so much clothes on
The boys in my school say only big boobs are pretty. He is my first boyfriend and no boy ever asked me out. You are lucky. Small boobs are so ugly and nobody wants them.
Then I would say that the boys in your school is not grown up, and none of them deserves you. Don't care about having a boyfriend or have guy friends, when you don't think about it the perfect man will come who loves everything you hate about yourself.
Buy him regular size condoms so maybe one day his baby dick will fit in it.
nice idea!
thats what i was thinking!!:P
get a large one write on the package the same thing in front of everyone-guys HATE that-when you puncture their masculinity/ego or whatever
It may be a little bit late,. but here is a link to a take that applies... and I think you should read it.
https://www. girlsaskguys. com/how-do-i-look/a7624-why-girls-should-not-feel-insecure-about-their-small-boobs
(remove the spaces to. see the link)
Dump him, he doesn't love you, love is all about loving your partner's flaws if he doesn't then move on.
Never lessen of yourself someone out there is probably crushing on you
It's not a cliché as much a it's true. Dumo him he's not the last guy out there.
Love is not measured by your bra size, stop labeling women by their appearance, you deserve someone so mucb better
The thing yoh have to regret is getting into a relationship with that rude douchebag
Small boobs are not ugly in the slightest, the guys at your school are all dicks. My boobs are small and my man thinks their pretty awesome.
I don't care if he is the only guy to ever pay attention to you that is no reason to lower your standards of what you expect from a guy. Dump his ass and don't let this affect you as much as you can, so what you don't have a whole lot to work with. A lot of guys actually like thin girls!
Small boobs are nice and I prefer them. You just have the wrong boyfriend in so many ways.
He does not like you as you are. He is critical. He thinks it is amusing to humiliate you in front of friends. He does not have empathy. He does not know when it is correct to apologise.
Dump him and fast.
There are nice guys who will like you as you are and with small boobs.