What's so bad about a guy being a player? The guy gets to have fun with lots of girls without commitment? In all honesty if the guy is good enough why shouldn't he do it?
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From a male's perspective, it's not. But for a female, we are looking out for our own best interest. A male player threatens our desire for a monogamous relationship, and from a biological perspective, creates doubt that he will be faithful to us and our future children.
I don't hold it against a guy that he was a player in the past as long as I sense he's changed and desires a committed relationship now. If I sense any desire to maintain the player lifestyle, I'll just move on and chalk it up to different wants/needs. Also, as a woman moves out of teenager/college age, she's likely been burned by players enough times that she's more guarded. So a man with a promiscuous past is less likely to break through her walls.3