There is a thing that happens a lot to me. When I find myself liking a boy I always have something like a fantasy that they dont match and i dont like them anymore. Like I can find someone better, more goodlooking, that dresses different etc . I am 18 by the way and i really want a boyfriend but these thoughts come up and I think that if i keep thinking that i will end up alone. Do you agree? Can you help me change my perspective? What do you do?
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I think you should learn to be thankful for what you have. There might be "better" guys who look better, dress better. But the question is, are they better for you? And honestly, we can't ever really get an answer to that. Its a risk and a painful one too. Can you imagine the pain of being left by someone you like because they found someone better? So I think learning to value and appreciate people will help to not just leave them like that for another. Once you really get to know someone, you might learn amazing things you never thought that person would be capable of. Remember this: "one day you'll realize you lost a diamond while being too busy collecting stones". Goodluck :)1