Everytime Im around a girl I try to do too much to impress, is this bad? Like just naturally I talk more, I show off more, i laugh in a cocky way. It just happens, like my mind tells me this is going to catch her attention. Sometimes I feel like this makes things worst. Like I feel like I look bad to girls. Like I'm fake. Should I just stay quiet , talk when I have to, and stand up straight and confident and hope they notice me? I use to feel like showing off and talking was going to get her to notice me.
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You simply need to learn to be yourself around girls. I think in general the differences between the two genders are emphasized wayyyy too much---over-emphasized, in fact. Both genders are still fundamentally human. If you just see them as HUMAN, instead of subconsciously reacting to girls' presence in a different way than you do to guys', then you'll be yourself with either gender. Start a conversation like you normally would and carry it along as normal. Try to stop feeling like there's any need to catch a girl's attention. Just be yourself, and that will be enough to catch the right girl's attention. You don't need any extra.1