I'm adding some facts to a question I asked earlier. I'm 15 and I'm dating a 17 year old. We've been dating for 10 months and I like him a lot. We talk about our futures together. I see him as a long term relationship(as in into college) but the problem is I don't know how he sees our relationship. I mean we talk about sex but I'm just not ready for that but he's 17 and I'm afraid that he will leave me or cheat on me if I don't give him what he wants. He says he loves me and he wants his 1st to be me. I don't even know if I would be his 1st. I really want to believe that he loves me like he says but I'm afraid he just wants to have sex with me.
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Hun, don't do it. You're not ready. If he really cares for you, he won't make you do something you don't want to do. If he leaves, he leaves. There are other guys hun! Don't do something that you don't feel comfortable doing. Sex is not something you do because you like each other. If he keeps trying to make you feel guilty like saying if you loved him you would, or stupid stuff like that, break it off with him hun. There are lots of guys who are only interested in sex. And to be honest, if a guy like that isn't getting it at all, or as much as they want, they will go to where they can get it. And I'm not saying that this guy is like that, but it is very possible. Don't do something that you will regret hun. And never be afraid to say no and stand up for yourself. If you need more advice, send me a message.1
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