I am female and as you might have alredy read I have zero sexual experience. And by that I mean I have never hugged a boy, kissed a boy or anything else. It's not like I wasn't attracted to boys. I really am but I never really got a chance to interact with someone like that. I usually hang out with my girl friends and never really with guys since I'm quite nervous around them and most of the boys I know are total idiots not even lying. I really want to have someone in my life like that. But it's like I have never really done anything sexual. by the way I'm not totally ugly to be fair. I'm very intelligent which might scare some people off. What am I supposed to do. And question to you guys would you start something with a girl that's no sexual experiences at all?
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It’s better that way. I was just like you up until age eighteen when by chance, I met a guy who treated me like a princess and made the wait completely worth it. I’m 22 years old and over the years, I have seen that typically being overly sexual in your teenage years tends to make a female codependent on men, she seems to have create an unhealthy dynamic among the relationship, and the way her relationships progress miss some more important intellectual and emotional steps. Or in other words, most of the girls I know who couldn’t stop dating and f*cking in high school are either pregnant, have a kid or two, or generally struggle with intimacy and relationships. It may be hard to see now, but you’re young and your personality is still developing and growing so it’s often best for you to make this phase of your life about that and not about romantic advances from guys. Here’s another benefit in your situation: most of these guys out here are sleazy and they play games ESPECIALLY in high school. They’re trying to stroke their ego half the times they get involved with a girl. It will be nice to lose your virginity to a real man and not a horny, childish teenage boy.
So, what do you do? You live your life, enjoy your life, create beautiful memories, and accept that there are so much more enriching, fulfilling things to be passionate about besides the opposite sex. One day, the right guy will find you : ) Trust me.3