Well here's the deal. I am moderately, tall, muscular, only tad overweight and I've been told I am attractive and have good sense of humor.
The thing is that I just find genuinly connecting to people hard. I've been also told I can be sometimes cold and inconsiderate which came as a surprise to me since I really don't consciously act like that.
I am somewhat emotinally detached and have been so for a long time. It's very hard for me to recognize other people's emotions and sometimes my own too. It's not like I am unfeeling or anything. But I just find it extremely hard to show feelings casually. Therefore I can'T just walk up to a girl and be charming as hell right from the very start. I am the kind of person that needs to warm up to a person and learn to trust before I feel at least somewhat comfortable showing real me- which can actually be quite open, sensitive and romantic. I don't thing I'll ever learn to be completely open from the start or to be charismatic charmer so basically I would like to know if there are some girls who would have patience with guy like me.
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As long as you can understand, sympathize, forgive and apologize. If those things are very hard as well, even when you're in a relationship, then I think I would have a difficult time because I am a very emotional hehe (not in a bad way, like drama queen style, but my feelings are very intense - that means all feelings).0