Hello, I am a junior in high school and have a crush on a freshmen. We started talking tow months ago. We hooked up at holloween, the party the day after, and we hung out twice alone and we hooked up. However, I didn't wanna try to go to far cause I felt she would think its weird cause she is young, so I only went to second base. We text almost every night, and snapchat. In the beginning she would text and snap me first sometimes. Now I almost always initiate, but recently she hasn't snapped me first or texted me first ever. She always gives me good answers though, and barely ever ignores. sometimes when I talk to her in school, she doesn't look at me and keep playing with her jewelry. My friend said she was just intimidated by me. So what should I do to get her to hit me up first. how often should I text her? Is she loosing interest, or playing hard to get? How should I deal with the situation?
- Stop talking to her until she hits me upVote A
- continue texting herVote B
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I would say she is still interested in you. Since you are a junior in high school and she is a freshmen, she is probably at least a little intimidated. Usually when a girl plays with her jewelry it means that she is into you and it's kinda a way to show that she is nervous. To me, she sounds kinda shy. Most girls don't want to be the ones to initiate a convo by text or snapchat. For example, my sister refuses to text her bf friend, he always has to. To her it also shows how interested you are. There is a possibility that she could think that you want to play with her feelings, but most likely not. I would text her but not more than one/two texts a day unless she responds back. I think you could try not texting/snap chatting her for a few days and see if she comes to you. I think if you play hard to get a little bit, she might show her interest. Don't try to make her jealous by flirting with girls in front of her that might scare her off. Good luck!0