I fell for a guy really hard but he "isn't ready for a relationship". He is a player and sleeps around. But whenever he brings up his ex gf, it's so hard to believe he had one, he must've fell hard for her. It always makes me wonder what she had what I don't have. And that she must be amazing. And I'm not nearly as good as her.
And if he ever finds a gf, I'll be so crashed, this thought makes me shiver. Everyone says move on and find someone who will appreciate you but I just can't get over the feeling that I'm no good, and I'm not good enough for the person I love. Why do other girls deserve his love but I don't?
How to get over this feeling? It's holding me back from moving on and I don't know how to deal with it?
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Your biggest mistake is putting this player on a pedestal and thinking that the ex-girlfriend must have been this super awesome person for him to commit to her. Never mind getting over this feeling, you need to sort your crippling self-esteem issues out and you need to get some self-respect.
Why any girl would want a player is beyond me?15
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