A guy I met recently asked me out on a date. I didn't really know much about him but we are friends on Facebook and I saw we have several mutual friends. Some in which I'm really close to so I asked around if anyone knew what kind of person he is. Almost every response seemed to be great things. Then one of my close friends texted me yesterday and said she found out why he got divorced and she said it was a very reliable source. She said he ended up getting a divorce because he cheated on his wife with a girl who he works/worked with. And he did tell me the divorce was the best thing that could've happened.
What do I do from here? Cause that's a major red flag. But I have several people telling me to just give him the benefit of the doubt because it could be a rumor. That's the only negative thing I've heard about him but that's a serious situation.
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Try to find out. You can go on the first date only to "get to know him" and try to discover the real reasons of his divorce. As you said, this can be a rumor and while it's a rumor you must confirm it or not. If it's true, then don't continue, who cheats once can cheat again.0