Girls I have had 3 surgeries in the last 5 or 6 years? I have gained 80 lbs bc of all 3 surgeries. (Used to weigh 200 lbs) One surgery made me immobile for 6 + months the next one about a month and the 3rd one about 3 weeks. Which those are the primary reasons I gained weight! I do workout a lot when I can as my job permits and time. I work about 60 hours per week and I go to school full time as well. I try everything to lose weight and I try to watch what I eat, but I do go on binges for awhile, sometimes. So I'm just wondering if this is why my dating life is so stagnant, bc when I was 200lbs it seemed like I always had a gf, but now after my surgeries (which were completely out of my control) I have gained a ton a weight and I have tried everything to get back down to that weight of 200 lbs. So is my reasoning correct do girls like a guy that is smaller and in better shape, obviously they were way more attracted to a guy like that, but I haven't changed who I was and I know I'm not that bad looking of a guy. So what gives? Are women just looking at whats on the outside instead of trying to get to know the guy? And why do women do this?
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