I always seen and experience girls shuting good guys down who are clean healthy and hard working for guys who are mean to them , do weed and other drugs, and live of welfare. i met smart beautiful , clean girls and they decide to shut down the good guys for the bad guys. why is that?
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Not all girls do... and at this point seeing the whole "good guy" vs "bad guy" debate i will tell you there is no such thing as ether because at any time people can change into someone else you don't even knwo any more lol i was friends with a guy who was a completely sensible guy until he started hanging around with this guy i had a HUGE crush on for about a year, if hanging around with him know how difficult it would make things for me wasn't horrible enough (you just don't do that to friends), he started acting like a jerk turning everyhting into an argument, and even when we both stuck together in high school after being bullied he then goes and bullies me :\ yeh... so there is no such thing as a "good guy" or "bad guy" :P.
Also i would never go for a guy that takes drugs and stuff that's just a recipe for a downward spiral in life lol and what's so bad about being on the the job center? maybe he just can't get a job right now? i don't like it at all when people take digs at someone on the job center because i used to be on it and i know what it's like, it's been 3 years since i went off it because they bullied me constantly... and still to this day try to interfear with my life... i haven't been able to get a job because of them... so... it's a bad case to make, they can't be on the job center forever lol they will get kicked off eventually. Not all girls are like this at all and i've rarely ever seen a girl go for a "druggie" so i think this is a big over-exaggeration because your hurt girls reject you, the truth is girls like confidence and a guy who is sure of himself just like guys like a girl with the same qualities, if you get super hurt even over rejection girls are going to notice.0