I am not trying to denounce them god bless their souls, but I am looking for virgins and it is ironic that on okcupid it seems more moms and slutty girls keep trying to talk to me. I have had to turn all of them down.
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(1.) OkCupid isn't known for having exactly the best cream of the crop when it comes to dating. People who AREN'T crazy and are actually serious will pay for a site like match.
(2.) I understand where you're coming from. I'm a virgin and I would like another inexperienced girl, too. However, that doesn't mean you should instantly cross-off any non-virgin off your list. You never know, one of those women might be genuinely great (but again this is okcupid) and could have only had one partner in her life.
(3.) If a girl is an obvious sloot, yeah I can understand why you would want to turn them down. However, a single mom MIGHT not be a bad idea. This is a case by case basis, but, some single moms are actually well adjusted and mature women who happened to have their old man leave them for dead after a kid arrived. Now, there TOTALLY are some dumb single moms that you should really avoid, mainly because they lack responsibility to even use proper BC or condoms. this isn't all of them, however.
What determines if you should date a single mom or not is how well off you are. If you're almost out of college and ready to work, give it a shot. If she's worth a damn she won't expect you to take care of her kid right off the bat.
(4.) As someone else said, if you're okay looking for virgins make sure you state that. Or just don't use okcupid, because I can assure you 90% of people on that sight aren't virgins.0