I went on a date with a guy I met a few months ago. The first time I saw him I thought he was well cute. We see eachother regularly but haven't talked much but recently he added me on Facebook, started flirting and hasn't stopped since. We went on a date last week and I had a good time, he's such a sweetie and an actual nice guy.
We text all night and when we see eachother we tease a bit and flirt but nothing much, we don't want people gossipping about us.
Now there are a few issues here:
1) I have a close group of friends and I'm afraid if things will start moving forward with this guy, he won't fit in my group of friends (and I do put my friends on the first place for now)
2) I'm not sure if it's infatuation, just nice to flirt with him after being single and insecure for a long time, lust, ? I don't know.
3) He's a few years younger than me and to be honest, I don't know how I feel about it.
I think about him a lot and I do get a smile on my face when he texts me. Sometimes I can get annoyed with a weird comment he makes, but I don't know if that matters a lot.
Even though I am halfway through my twenties, I'm horrible at stuff like this since I've never had a long relationship nor do I really know after how many dates or after how much time I'm supposed to know what I want for sure. I want my next relationship to be a serious one and not just one that lasted a few weeks/months.
Well, there go his chances.
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you won't ever know when it comes to knowing how many dates or how much time. go by feeling, don't stick to a guide. so many couples experience progress at different rates. feel him out and if you need to then give yourself more time to assess your feelings/emotions.1