So this guy I've been texting since October slept over on our second date. We were just watching movies in my dorm, and it was like 2 in the morning and he said he should probably be going and I told him he could stay if he wanted. It's the middle of winter here and he kept yawning so I didn't really think it was safe. But when watching movies we held hands, we cuddled ( it's a twin bed, there's not a whole lot of room.) when we slept he spooned me. But when he left we didn't hug or kiss. We haven't done either. Is he just being very gentlemanly? Or is he not interested?
I had guy sleep over, but he didn't make any moves. Is he uninterested or just being a gentleman?
What Guys Said 6
I think he's being a gentleman.. i don't see the man not liking you
or not being interested in you.. when me and my first girlfriend started
dating we just held hands we didn't start kissing right away but you two
been seeing each other since October he needs start giving you hugs
and kisses least i think so.. He should of maybe made some move that night.
Example: I started texting girl since October if i met her face to face
sure after month i would start sending her kisses n hugs through text
if we didn't have other means of communication or couldn't see each
other all the time.1
Being a gent or is nervous or taking things slow. Just continue what you are doing and make a move first :)2
He was being a gentleman. Sounds like a good guy.1
I personally would feel really nervous to try to make a move on you. But that's just my shyness speaking.0
its always different. maybe he wanted to make a move, but wasn't sure you wanted to. maybe he thought 'we are already cuddling and what not, and she still didn't give me a sign, it might be better if i do nothing.'
technically cuddling could be a sign, but some shy guys could just oversee it0
What Girls Said 2
I don't know, my current boyfriend spent a night at my house after a few dates and he didn't try anything either, yet here we are. However, he may not have tried anything because I live at home and he didn't want my parents or sister hearing him (plus I was a virgin at the time). I believe your guy may still be interested, but isn't about to do anything you may not be comfortable with yet.1
If it's only your second date be cool it'll happen eventually hun don't rush it3
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