I have no desire whatsoever to have sex, I although I still very much want to date and meet girls. Its just my lack of libido makes me question sometime whether it's fair to try to. If we started dating, sex would be the last thing on my mind. If she initiated, I probably wouldn't reciprocate the way she wanted. There's just no desire for me to have sex.
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Maybe you should try doing things that might accelerate your sex drive-alone-before you get involved with any girls. Perhaps you could try masterbating more and getting some porno. I honestly think the more one masterbates the hornier they tend to become. I would do it until you make yourself cum, and continue to do this. When you are with a girl, get an image in your head of what made you cum. If you are worried about being able to come having sex with a girl, then spend time trying to please her before you gain that confidence. Make it about her, and she will be very flattered. Then, the next time you masterbate think about the new experience you had with that girl. Did she seem to enjoy the things you did to her? Did you find her moans self-fulfilling and erotic? I know I have gone through stages where I just wasn't in the mood for sex, but the release of endorphins that are a result from an orgasm are super beneficial. So, if I am feeling super stressed out, I pretty much make myself cum. Sometimes, this takes a super long time, but I always feel better afterwards.1