I'm going to keep this simple. I'm 19 and I'm not that much to look at. I'm not hideous, but I'm not all that attractive either. Girls tend to find my personality attractive though. I don't want to keep being the 'guy friend' that has to watch said girl be with other guys all of the time. I've done it enough times, and it hurts. In the beginning I am upfront about my feelings (and girls say no generally because I'm not attractive) but I can't keep asking her otherwise it comes off as desperate, so I end up just becoming her friend. So, how do I show her my personality without her only wanting to be friends?
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Tell her you find her attractive and that you want to know her better. She can't friendzone you after that. I'm speaking from personal experience. A guy told me that he was attracted to me when we weren't really freinds but in the same highschool. We talked for about six months and then got together. He has a great personality but isn't much to look at. But, even if I tried, I couldn't friendzone him. We're together for almost a year now. Just comliment her and remember that confidence is hella cute/sexy/hot/adorable/attractive. ^_^ Good luck!0