When I see girls looking at me and check me out i'm just slowly getting nervous even one time a girl i liked , I saw her coming my way... In my mind I was saying please don;'t come to me I'm not ready! But then she sat right beside me :( It was just so awkward with the silence I just don't know what to say to any girl When I see a girl I like it's as if I want to run away so I don't have to talk to them because I don't want to mess things up people keep telling me to just step up to her and be romantic but I just can't no matter how much I try It's like my chest and my throat gets blocked up my heart will start pumping hard I can't even look her in the face I wonder if I will be like this for the rest of my life :(
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I feel your pain. Have had this happen many times.
I often ask them out.. at least in my head.. on the way home.
Jokes aside, I think you're right, we all need to overcome our shyness and go for it. Then the nice guys will WIN!!
A nothing to lose attitude is necessary. Imagine you've only got one day left. Just go for it. Because if you do nothing, then the girl disappears anyway. But it is a lot easier said than done. A girl I liked, walked up near me in uni and rather randomly started grooming herself in a nearby mirror on the wall. I really wanted to say hi. In the end, she said hi to me. I mustered some.. words, but I wish I had been more confident.
If you do work out a solution to this, please let me know too!!0