So I've met this one girl on a dating site, i know i know. its lame and i know that myself, didn't use any subscription bla bla anyway, she started talking to me or better yet texting. So here is my problem. She is originally from China, and has very bad English from what i can see and heared a bit. I myself am from germany but my English is pretty decent and i do not mix words up and all. So i'm kinda in the middle here, she sounds like a nice girl and all, but the language turns me off, like REALLY BAD. I do not want to meet her and get her hopes up when i feel all f*cked up about her language. so is it wrong for me to think this way? am i beeing ungratefull or mean?
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It's a legit reason to not pursue someone.
You already have to make the effort to get to know someone.
Now you have to make a whole other effort to break through a language barrier.
It's not worth it in my opinion unless you are than willing to.
I think you're being understandable and should move on, if you don't want to make that effort.0