Ok so ever since I can remember I've found white men hot. I don't know why but I'm just drawn to them. I like all races by the way if a guy is hot he's hot but I don't know I just really am into white guys. Hot ones. However what I've noticed is that they like either slim, darker I guess more 'ethnic' looking girls. I'm medium complexion just like a normal brown bordering on 'fair' and I'm curvy (I have weight to lose - gonna hit the gym just now actually) but I have an hour glass shape and I know that I'll never be skinny like a model so does that mean white guys wouldn't look at me if I weren't skinny skinny? I think I'm pretty and I've seen a few give me the look but never approach:( do white men only like skinny black girls? Do I need to manage expectations and know my dating pool is small till I shed some more weight. I'm not obese or anything but just not thin. I mean of course the white man is not the ideal but I would just like to be able to feel like I can get any guy I fancy regardless of race and right now I'm all for vanilla.
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I may be -way- off. But this is what I suspect.
A small group of white guys have a black girl fetish. They likely go for 'thick' black girls, and have it in their heads that black girls are thick and curvy compared to white girls.
I'd actually say people are -too worried- about "being someone's fetish". My partner is a hetero woman. She only likes guys. She also likes tall guys. Does that mean I'm being objectified because I'm a tall guy? No, our relationship goes beyond that. If someone has a more specific type, and you're it, and that's all they care about, yeah, that's crappy. If they have a specific type, and you're it, and they get to know you and you connect on other levels, hey, great. Worse things in life then turning your partner on like crazy, right?
Back to the rest of white guys. Most guys don't care very much about color in their partners. They think about it less then women do. They go for 'attractive' no matter what race. But their preferences don't vary. They don't go for white girls who are hourglasses or petite Asian girls, or thick black girls. Whatever body shape they like, that's what they like, whatever her color is.
In north america, the -average- white guy's ideal build is slimmer than the -average- black guy's ideal build. There's overlap, but that's the averages. So yes I think there's some truth that -average- white guys like relatively thin girls, whether they're white, black, Asian, etc.
The black girls I find most attractive often complain they are being told they need to gain weight by their friends and family.3