My boyfriend hasn't called me in 3 days what should I do?

[willowl]

My boyfriend hasn't called me in 3 days and the last time I talked to him he said he would call me back in a couple hours I thought he had called while I was out so I called him but got his voicemail should I call him? he doesn't normally ignore me and knows I don't like it when he just disappears like this.

Thanks

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+1 y

Ok so I went out to see my friend at the bar tonight and his friend was there his friend noticed I was there and told my boyfriend and my boyfriend came to the bar to see me another question to add to this is when I was at the bar my ex came up and kissed me my boyfriend saw and got mad but after talking he promised he wasn't that mad and would let it go and talk to me tomorrow and when I left he kissed me and said he promised he would let it go and wasn't very mad just wanted to think

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+1 y

So he said he just wanted to think a little and that a good time to call him would be tomorrow at 6 so do you think he's really not mad?

[emmabee11]

Man i hate the amount of people that do this to other people and make them feel needy or something if they do want to talk to them, so inconsiderate of others feelings, people lack so much in honesty and communication these days, if someone wants some space they could have the decency to say "I need my space honey i'm tired and i want to spend some time with some friends this week too", but instead they ignore you and expect you to know everything... i've seen so many questions like this on here and it's probably like one of the top things people ask about. Id just cal him and then if he doesn't answer just be honest with him and say "Why are you ignoring me? if you need some space you could at least have the decency to tell me but you just disappear and make me feel like i'm being needy or something if i even so much as text you, i want to keep things open and honest but you aren't being so much, tell me when you need some time alone so i know and i'm not feeling like i'm annoying you", just be honest with him since he's lacking so much of it.

[willowl]

I actullay left a voicemail saying that he shouldn't ignore me like this and that if he expected things to go anywhere we needed to communicate better and I totally agree there are far to many people who do that and he should honestly know that if he said something like I need to spend some time with my friends this week so I won't be in touch for a bit then I would let him have that space I thought I had proven at least that much to him by now seeing as in the past if he say he needs some space for whatever reason I normally just say ok take some space and call me when you are done needing space and won't bother him with calling or anything till I have either heard from him or if he told me when he would be able to talk again won't call till I know he's done taking his space and it does kind of make me feel needy almost and that sucks because I don't see why I should be feeling needy when he does this but part of me can't help it but feel that way

[willowl]

I just want some simple communication from him it shouldn't be so hard to pick up the phone once in a while just to tell me whats going on

[emmabee11]

I know exactly, i get that your not his boss and he doesn't need to always be checked in on from you but your not doing that... your just simply wanting to know when he wants space and for him to consider you so you know what's going on, why and so your always on the right page but it seems he's always constantly making you feel uncertain about him when he does this, he may think "She should know me by now she knows id never do anything", but it's not the point... lol of course you know that but you would just like to understand why, i feel like people do this to avoid questions incase you might ask why they are taking space and that you don't always need to knwo about their own issues because sometimes you just have insecurities you need to figure out (which is entirely your own responsiblity), but still... it's not right ether to keep you entriely in the dark.

[willowl]

Yes and that is so true I mean of course I know better then to think he would cheat because I know him well enough to know he's not like that plus the things he has said about cheating make me sure he wouldn't but at the same time there are insecurities that I have and he knows this he also knows that I have low self esteem with certain things that stem mostly from my ex and that I can't help it I hate feeling like I am in the dark mostly because unfortunately I have an over active mind and will over think a lot if given the time to do so and when he's like this yes I start to feel a bit uncertain its not that I don't trust him because I do trust him he has never lied to me before but when I have the time to sit here thinking about it all I just can't help but feel uncertain and its mostly defiantly not about wanting him to always check in with me or feel that I`m his boss so he has to check in all the time with me its about respect and the fact that I am his girlfriend

[willowl]

So I think that should give me the right to have him simply tell me when he wants a bit of space or time I don't ask him to do much just tell me whats going on because if it were me ignoring him that wouldn't stand at all and he would be asking me why I would do something like that to him if I need space I always tell him so he won't feel that he is being ignored by me lol

[emmabee11]

Totally and mostly he does show you respect but not when he does this which is just really rude, honestly if he doesn't talk id just ignore him back and see how he feels about it then lol i doubt he would like it ether... if that's the only way to let him know how it makes you feel... of course i don't hope you don't have to do this because it's like siblings fighting haha but i know sometimes you have to as to get your point across.

[willowl]

Yes you are right it would be like siblings fighting in a way haha but I also don't want him to think he can just walk all over me I hope it doesn't come to that but if it does then I will give it a try and yeah he is respectful to me usually honestly he's usually the one who will cave in first when we are trying to wait to hang out till after our school work and everything else has been done and will say that he misses me a lot and to just put the school work aside for another time lol so when he does this kind of stuff I always get a bit uncertain as to why the one time he was upset with me and took a few days to himself I asked why he hadn't told me first and was told he needed time to get the courage to talk with me again after all of that and I hope its nothing but him being silly but I guess I will see

[emmabee11]

Well that's even worse now because he's now got you all confused thinking you've done something to make him mad :\ and guys say they don't act like girls sometimes? lol they sure can do i know that one from bad experiences from guys i've had, it's like "Wait? your not giving me sex?" and then they blow up my chat box or something haha i swear sometimes guys have a period too xD. I hope you can work this out with him, he's probaly thinking he doesn't wanna get you worried but he should know that when you ignore a girl we DO get worried lol got things mixed the wrong way lol.

[willowl]

Lol oh you are so right and uh if it were about sex then I would be surprised cause that shouldn't be the issue haha they so do have periods of their own just without the gross part and its true he is making me confused cause it feels like I have done/said something to make him mad but the only thing I could think of was my phone isn't working so just the other day I sent it in to get fixed but when I saw him he saw that I was looking at it and made a comment about it since I already told him it was acting up so I could only call from the house phone but I showed him what it was doing and he quickly took his comment back plus we ended up spending the night together the same night it happened so I doubt it has anything to do with that and yes lol of course when guys ignore girls especially if that girls their girlfriend then the girl will most defiantly get worried its easy for things to get mixed the wrong way and most guys know that we will worry over them ignoring us

[emmabee11]

Haha not saying it's about sex but it's one of the examples of why bad guys ignore you anyway lol i had a physcial relationship with a guy once and he got pissy i moved away and wasn't going back up to Scotland then point blank ignored me because he wasn't getting any more xD i think we liked each other some what too but it was never to be sadly.. my bro and dad get pissy a lot with each other too, should see them when they get annoyed at each other aha like 2 girls fighting, i do hope it wasn't about the phone thing, does he go off like this every time he starts getting paranoid over stuff?

[willowl]

Yeah I know it was one of the example I just would be surprised if it was his reason but doubt it is haha and no usually he deals with things right away it was just the one time so far but I guess he had good reason my phone wasn't even turning on for awhile and he knew that so when it just out of the blue turned itself on without warning after a week of not turning on then it surprised us both a bit and lol wow that sounds kind of harsh that the guy just ignored you over that and haha my cousin does that with his dad a lot too lol

[emmabee11]

Beats me what's up with him ether lol

[willowl]

Lol I figured it out

[R3d_Anonymous]

Amen to this.

[willowl]

Lol yeah agreed :)

[kangy]

Please call him, i would be very concerned if such thing happen and wouldn't wait for three days.
Ask mutual friends about his whereabouts and help
Visit his house and check him out
If you have his house telephone number, please call

[willowl]

Yes I have called a couple of his close friends but haven't got an answer yet and I was thinking I`d maybe go up to his house but his mom would probably answer so would have to think about that a bit first I have called him now a few times but haven't got any answer and I'm starting to worry as its unusual for him he has only done this once but hasn't done it again for a couple months now since me and him talked and I told him how it worries me and he should tell me if something comes up or needs a bit of space and he hasn't done it since till now

[willowl]

But yes I am very concerned about this by the way sorry if that was a long answer

[kangy]

How long have both of you been together?
Has the relationship been rocky?

[kangy]

what did your instinct tell u?

[willowl]

We have been together a little over 4 months now and no not really rocky I would say we have had our fair share of disagreements but it always gets solved within the same day it happens and its over silly things like turning his phone on silent and not checking it all day or forgetting to text me and tell me if we are still meeting that night till last minute I think we have only had one real fight but that was a long time ago now and hasn't come up again since he took a couple days while we went to Vancouver and called me again a day or so after but again its never come up since and has been a long time since it happened I guess my first instinct when I called him the same day me and him had talked and he said he would call me in a couple hours or so was he had just got caught up with his homework or had gone to bed early as he had just had a long night and just got back from Vancouver the night before and he would call me back when he saw that I had called

[willowl]

Or he would answer my phone call when I called him next

[kangy]

Ok your relationship is still new, I understand it won't be good to go to his house.
I guess you can only be more patient and continue to call him.
I hope he isn't trying to go silent or have anything bad happen to him

[willowl]

I don't think so I don't have a cell phone right now and my mom thought he had called the house phone while I was out so I called him from my friends cell thinking he was trying to call me and didn't get an answer and he always answers even when he doesn't know who is calling and yeah I just don't know if I feel comfortable with going to his house as I barely know his mom or the person staying with them and well I hope its none of those either

[MargaritaPeach]

He's mad... hopefully some time to think will allow him to sort things out. And hopefully he will forgive you. Just think about how you would act and feel if the situation was reversed.

[willowl]

Turns out he's not really that mad I ended up seeing him last night and every things good now but thank you :)

[MargaritaPeach]

Oh, that is awesome! Glad to hear it. That's a good sign that he's either very mature, or you mean a lot to him. Possibly both. ;)

[willowl]

Yeah I agree and thanks :) yeah it could possibly be both as you said :) either way I am just glad it got worked out sooner then later

[p0rtis26]

3 days is a long time for no contact. That seems very fishy if you are in a relationship. Unless there is more information that you are not telling us, that is just weird.

[willowl]

The only other thing I could think to add is the time he went to Seattle cause of his mom having an emergency so he left right away but didn't tell me till he got back a week later and the time he was upset and took a few days to himself without saying a word but we talked about it all after and he agreed that ignoring me wasn't the answer if he was upset with me over something plus that was a couple months ago now for both and last time I saw him I`d just spent the night with him and went to school then he went to Vancouver the day after he got back was when we last talked but he told me he was gonna go get lunch and call me back in a couple hours so yes I agree it is seeming kinda odd cause he doesn't normally ignore me like this

[p0rtis26]

I would not want to be in a serious relationship where the other has sporadic unpredictable behavior. However, maybe that is your type of relationship. (do your own thing) If I were you I would at least text him to say hi and see how he is doing. Personally, if I had a family emergency I still think it is respectful or considerate to let your significant other at least something within a 3 day span.

[willowl]

I would text him but I only have a house phone right now mine is getting fixed and yes I agree it is considerate to at least say something to your significant other and not let it get to three days of no talking

[willowl]

Also Im not to sure if I really have a type I just go for someone Im interested in usually and see how that goes

[p0rtis26]

Then give him a ring and a short voice mail to show your concern. Keep it short, simple, sweet, and real and then maybe some concern if you are thinking that.

[willowl]

Good idea I will try that thanks :)

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Why wouldn't you call him? I couldn't imagine an unplanned absence of three days

[willowl]

Because I was thought he might want some space but now I`m starting to wonder if it that.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Why would you wonder that? You didn't have a fight.

[willowl]

True we didn't have a fight so I don't know I'm just over thinking I guess.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You need to figure out a way to get ahold of him. I would go crazy not hearing from someone I love for three days.

[willowl]

Trust me I`m already feeling like I'm going crazy three days without saying anything feels like a long time right now

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Then find a way to get ahold of him

[willowl]

He doesn't use Facebook or anything so the phone is the only way to get ahold of him that I can think of

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You know where he lives? You know any of his friends? If three days is completely unusual, I think you can find a way

[willowl]

Yeah we have a couple mutual friends that he's close with and I know where he lives

[yaddayaddayadda02]

So call them and/or head over there. I'm sorry, but that behavior is shitty. You care about him and he's a dick, unless something is legit wrong.

[willowl]

Yeah true enough I was thinking of going there but his mom would probably answer and I`ll call his friends for sure but yeah unless somethings wrong this behaviour is being kinda shitty right now

[MayByesMayBno]

I would call him, there's no reason for radio silence for three days.

[willowl]

Exactly I agree there is no need for it so I`ll try to call maybe after another day or so

[Mic127]

I just had this literally this whole week DO NOT CONTACT HIM AT ALL I MEAN IT!!! hell start to wonder y u aren't contacting him

[willowl]

Sounds kind of like what my friend said lol expect she said if it goes on till after the weekend then I should suck it up and go to his house

[willowl]

If you don't mind me asking what happened for you after all that?

[Mic127]

Well ours is a bit dif we got in a fight..-and bj DO NOT GO TO HIS HOUSE TRUST ME

[willowl]

Trust me I wouldn't go to his house Im just giving it till after the weekend and since we go to the same school I might see him and yeah everyones is different

[Mic127]

Ic that sounds good then

[willowl]

Yeah well at least I hope so...

[willowl]

Thanks

[SnowHearth]

I haven't talked to mine since Monday, although I know about him because our firstborn daughter talks with him every day.

[willowl]

Yeah its just he said he was gonna call me in a couple hours and its going on three days now with him not answering or calling I guess I just get worried and I tend to over think sometimes and well at least that would be helpful for you :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I think your over playing things give him some time i am sure he will call

[willowl]

Yeah maybe I am I`ll try giving him a bit of time

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I hope things work out for you

[willowl]

Thanks

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Oh he didn't call in 3 days i would find out what's going on
by tomorrow most definitely

[willowl]

Yeah Im gonna try to figure out whats going on cause its weird for him to go three days without calling

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes i would say so after reading your post again i thought it over
yes it does sound weird but i hope it works out for you

[willowl]

Oh ok yeah I mean I could honestly just be over thinking but after he disappeared for a week a couple months ago I told him that if he needs space or something comes up he should just make the simple call to tell me first and ever since he hasn't done anything like this and thank you I hope so as well

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're Welcome :-)))

[willowl]

Ok :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

:D :-)

[willowl]

:D Lol I wish it were as simple as saying every things fine Im just over thinking this

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

If i had a girlfriend i could never let her go 3 days without calling her
nope love means everything to me in a relationship i would explain
to her like a mature man and tell her hey i can't call or i will be busy
heck i would use Google Voice just to let her know things are alright
I'm sorry i can't accept to go days without least text messaging
if some guys can do it well that's them i just can't. when I'm
with a girl she means everything to me just the type guy i am.

[willowl]

Yes well if only all guys were like that.. I would normally just assume he got busy with school but not for three days usually he at least answers my phone call and will say he's got a lot of homework to do or has plans for most of the week and won't be able to talk to a certain day but not this time I honestly don't think its asking much to give me a simple phone call to say he will be busy for awhile cause in the past if he says he will be busy I give him the time he needs and won't bother to call him till I know he won't be busy so he should understand that by now..

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes true

[willowl]

Yeah expect it doesn't really seem like he understands that much right now and if he does he seems to be forgetting to show it atm

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yeah i agree really puts you to point to wondering which isn't fair

[willowl]

I agree its not fair at all I don't wanna be thinking about what could be going on yet since he hasn't said a single word it is kinda hard to not wonder well I guess there's always Monday if I see him at school then I will say something

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yeah but this is Friday night what does he do on Friday evening?
Well, guess give it to Monday and see what's going on if you could
contact someone who knows him as a mutual friend !

[willowl]

It depends on the week I guess he is usually with his one friend or in for the night I know his friend that he would be with but don't know his phone number or anything to contact him I was thinking I would call our mutual friend and see if they had heard from him at all and if not then I guess I have no choice but to wait

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Just try to take things calm and hope things are all good
the worst thing is to get all upset.

[willowl]

Well I`m trying to take things calm but its not very easy honestly.. but yeah your right

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes i know it's not easy :/

[willowl]

Yeah plus I already am upset

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I'm sorry i hope it goes good :-)))

[willowl]

No need to be sorry it him who should be sorry at least you've been helpful so thank you :) and yes I hope so as well knowing him he will probably take a couple days then be back to normal with it all or at least I hope

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're Welcome :-)

[willowl]

Okay :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I'm glad to been able to help you :-)))

[willowl]

Well thanks then :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're welcome xD

[willowl]

Ok. .

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

... :D

[willowl]

Lol :)

[SurströmmingLover]

Did you have a fight? That seems a lot in a relationship

[willowl]

No we didn't have a fight

[SurströmmingLover]

then something is wrong...

[willowl]

What do you mean by something is wrong? there's a couple ways that could be taken..

[SurströmmingLover]

to be sure, call him urself

[willowl]

I just did but he didn't answer

[SurströmmingLover]

Have he done this again?

[willowl]

Done what again?

[SurströmmingLover]

not calling or not responding

[willowl]

He's only done this once before but he had a good reason but he hasn't done that for over a couple months now and usually only ignores my calls when he's really busy it doesn't help that I can't just text him though

[SurströmmingLover]

I don't know what to say... just be patient I guess.

[willowl]

Yeah I guess it just sucks cause if he just wanted space or something I would give it to him but just not answering my calls makes me worried

[Wanghe20512]

Well, hold on, my bf disappeared for one month, I just send some messages several days, I know he was busy so I seldom bother him and do my stuff, finally he came back himself;)

[willowl]

Well funny story I saw him when I was at the bar with my friends his friend told him I was there and he came to see me my ex kissed me and he saw mind you I didn't really kiss my ex back it just happened so fast that I realized and pulled back my bf thought I pulled my hair away so my ex could kiss my neck but I just pulled it cause it felt like I had hair in my mouth I talked to him he was a bit mad at first but was with me dancing the rest of the night and kissing me he said he still loves me and would have given me a ride back but his car was full cause he already told his friends he would drive them he said he promised he would let it go and that he wasn't to mad he just need a little bit and if I were to call tomorrow at 6 would be a good time do you think he really will let it go and not be to mad? and no I honestly didn't try to kiss the guy it was a complete accident

[Wanghe20512]

Well, if I were u, I would call him out to explain that was all happened by accident, that's not ur fault and u still love him, if he can understand, then he deserves ur love, if he coundnt, just be patient and give him sometime to think and leave him alone. If after two week he still not reply , that just leave him.

[willowl]

Well we talked right after it all happened he was really mad at first but then we went outside his friend said we should try to talk and he came to his senses and agreed to talk to me in his car he was arguing a bit that he wasn't blind he saw me move my hair away from my neck and said I did it on purpose to let my ex kiss my neck I told him how it felt like I had hair in my mouth and that was the only reason I moved it and right after told my ex it was wrong and I honestly loved him it was just a mistake plus I had been drinking and didn't try to kiss my ex at all after a bit he seemed a bit upset but better and we spent the rest of the night like an hour or so at the bar tougher with a few of his friends dancing he even kissed me a few times and before I left I asked if he was just saying any of that because he felt like I would let him go to his friends if he said it and if it was anything like the last time he was mad he said he wasn't just saying it to get me to leave and that

[willowl]

He wasn't doing it the way he did things the last time he was mad and I asked if he would let it go he said for me he would try to not be to mad and let it go because he still loves me and promised he wouldn't be to upset I asked if I were to call him tomorrow when would be good and he said 6 kissed me I said I love you he said I love you too and I am going to drive my friends home that he would give me a ride but had to many people to drive back and gave me money for a cab

[Lena19]

I would call him and or go to his house to see if he's alright.

[willowl]

Yeah I am gonna try to call him again soon I did consider going to his house but am a bit unsure if I should or not cause I barely know his mom and have only met the other person living with them once and don't know how his mom feels about me cause of her friend so Im not sure if I should do that or not

[Lena19]

Just call and leave a message to call you back. If he doesn't, just go check on him.

[willowl]

I did get a hold of him after a bit thanks :)

[Lena19]

No problem and hope everything was alright. Men are a pain.

[willowl]

Haha yeah well I went with my friend to the bar and ran into my ex he's friend saw me there and told him where I was so he came to see me my ex went to kiss me mind you I didn't really kiss back he saw that though it felt like I had hair in my mouth so I moved my hair my ex went to kiss my neck but as soon as I realized so like a second or so after I moved away and told him he shouldn't do any of that when he knows I have a bf now but my bf took it as I did it on purpose I found him he was mad at first but we talked and I explained it was just a mistake and complete accident I wasn't intending for any of it and how I told my ex right after he shouldn't do that my bf eventually calmed down enough to realize what I was saying though he didn't think I was drunk cause of my breath even though I was actually pretty drunk atm he said he would try to let it go and try to not be to mad with me because he loved me and that he just needed to think a bit we ended spending the last hour till the

[willowl]

Place closed dancing with his friends though and at the end when I asked if he was just saying that stuff so I would let him leave he said no I meant what I said I'm not just saying it so you will leave and when I asked if it was like the last time he got mad/upset and left me in the dark for three days or so and if he would that again he said it wasn't like that this time he didn't think I said I love you and he said I love you too that he would drive me but didn't have room with his friends there gave me money for the cab and when I asked about calling today he said 6 would be a good time so I will call him tonight I think he meant it and isn't to upset or mad about it now

[willowl]

Sorry if that was so long lol

[Lena19]

It's fine. Sorry how long it took me to reply.

Also it's good he was understanding.

[willowl]

Yeah its good he understood and it is fine :)

[dakraziest]

yeah you should call him

[willowl]

Yeah I did but he didn't answer...

[dakraziest]

well then call his close friends

[willowl]

I think I will try that

[gapminder]

He's probably just partying and forgot. Nothing personal, guys just get caught up and forget some times.

[willowl]

Yeah hopefully your right and its just that

[gapminder]

Plus if he's out in the boondocks maybe his cell isn't working. I'm sure if he's with a bunch of other guys they are too busy drinking and carrying on, so again it's probably not personal, although inconsiderate of your feelings for sure.

[gapminder]

Every time I went to Canada we went to get lost in the wilderness. .. lol. it's pretty easy to do there right?

[willowl]

Yeah it is inconsiderate of my feelings but if your right then I'm sure he didn't mean to ignore me

[gapminder]

I always choose to give the benefit of the doubt first.
otherwise you can drive yourself crazy thinking of all the possibilities. . lol. right?

[willowl]

Yes that is a good way of going about it I wish I could always do that but I tend to over think without trying to but your right lol I should try to give him the benefit of the doubt for sure thanks :)

[gapminder]

Wow, thanks, see already I can tell you are reasonable and cool. So I'm sure your boyfriend feels the same way. He's just off being shit faced now, but after he gets it out of his system he'll be back. Then you can tell him what an ass he is... lol!

[willowl]

Lol well thank you I am glad you think so yeah usually the only time I am not reasonable or cool is when he deserves it and he know when he deserves it usually other then that it really does take a lot to make me mad and yeah I`m sure your right about that lol defiantly will be telling him that he was being an ass when he's back though

[Anonymous]

My GF and I hadn't spoken for 3 days, but now she's asking me "Are you OK".

I think something has happened, something you're not telling us.

[willowl]

Nope that was everything I could think of the only other thing I had forgot was my phone hadn't been turning on so I was going to send it in to get it fixed it turned on out of no where in my bag and we were both very surprised he made a comment but when it turned off again right after and didn't turn on again he took back what he said cause he saw that it was really not working and it turns out he was sick but we talked the other night and everything is fine now

[girl111m]

yes call him.

[willowl]

Yeah Im trying to but he hasn't answered

[girl111m]

he lives with his family? try to call him one of his parents/siblings. I f he doesn't call a roommate or a friend of him and tell them you want to talk with him. or go visit him.

[willowl]

I got ahold of him but thanks :)

[NovemberJoseph]

Awkwardness level too much abandon ship

[willowl]

Lol I`m just giving it a few days see how it goes

[sexymax]

Why not, if you want him then call

[willowl]

Yeah no need ended seeing him tonight

[sexymax]

Haha

[willowl]

Yeah well I went to the bar with my friend and his friend saw me and told him I was there my ex kissed me and he saw he was mad at first but after talking he promised he would let it go and not be mad just needed a bit to think and said a good time to call would be tomorrow at 6 so should I just take his word that he's really not that mad and will let that go?

[sexymax]

May be he break the promise

[willowl]

I don't know he seemed to mean it why do you think he would break it?

[sexymax]

Because, I will breakup with a girl who kiss others

[willowl]

I didn't kiss him back though

[sexymax]

O then may be he mid understand

[willowl]

I think he did I told him how it was my ex and it was an honest mistake that I didn't really kiss him back I almost did but caught myself after a second or so and from where he was he thought I pulled my hair away so my ex could kiss my neck but it was just that I had some hair in my mouth and I ended up saying to my ex that it wasn't right of him to do that

[sexymax]

I think better to talk eachother TT will help you to understand

[willowl]

Yeah we did talk but I asked him about calling tomorrow he said 6 would be good so I will just call him then like he said

[sexymax]

That means he is not understating , if you want him then try convened him by showing your love on him

[willowl]

No he did understand right after it happened I found him and asked to talk with him we went outside his friend even said it would be good to talk so we went to his car and I explained it all to him it took a bit for him to calm down but after a bit he seemed to understand and said that he would try to not be mad and let it go for me because he loves me still then we spent a good hour or so dancing with a few of his friends before we left I asked if he was just saying any of it cause he thought I would let him go to his friends if he said it he said no he meant what he said to me and I asked if it was gonna be like the last time he got mad he said no it wasn't and he wouldn't just ignore me this time and said if his car wasn't full he`d give me a ride gave me money for a cab I said I love you he said I love you too kissed me and when I asked about calling tomorrow he said 6 would be good and went to drive his friends back

[sexymax]

That's good
Best of luck for your future

[willowl]

Thanks

[willowl]

Meant that I ended up seeing him lol just noticed that

[TurkeyisGOOD]

how you can still say my boy frend...

[willowl]

What makes you say that? and easy its not like I kissed the guy back after all of it I saw him the other night and he understands that it was just an accident so he's not mad

[Anonymous]

Why can't you call him

[willowl]

Good question I wish I knew that myself