I was asking one of my friends recently about how I can try to be happy with my fate of remaining single. I recently faced rejection and it was the kind I have faced my whole life. After trying to change myself, my situation etc... I realise nothing will make a man consider me commitment worthy. Of course people then say, stop saying such things or you will make it worse. My answer is that being positive never got me anywhere either and by now, after ending up with loss each time.. I'm done. I've never had a real relationship and guys reject me. I am objectively beautiful, everyone would say I am beautiful. So I know its my personality, I am however funny, goofy and flirtatious. But there is something I miss on a deeper level, so I have tried for years and now I just want to continue existing without any baggage. I asked my friends how I can be happy again, alone.. like when I was younger. They said thats impossible because I now have baggage. So I don't want to take risks in love anymore, I don't want to give it another try, I don't want to keep fuelling false hope. I just want to be happy, because I know it will never happen for me, i give up. I am never the girl who is the exception.. never. So how do I remove the emotional baggage? So that I can just enjoy living my life solo? thank you! :)
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If possible, ask Steve Harvey, the man can cure cancer.
however, giving up as you are a healthy woman with a great personality
I think that stupid. ( sorry ) no matter how many times you are put off, you should
adapt and overcome those negativity, its what create a better you, you should live for a better you,
humans can NEVER stop improving, but MOST will never want to improve, because we are born sinners.
That extra "baggage" may contain improvements that you can learn & adapt from or too.
if guys reject you, find love elsewhere, find a woman that can relate to you,
we don't live in a world where just opposite sexes are attracted to each other girl!
if guys can't see your beauty, try women ! never give up though, that's the last thing you want to do, I say it a bunches too, I gave up , but hey, maybe you should look for the little things in life, they make days happen.
But if you are willing to attempt living life solo, just until love happens unexpectedly, work out, perfect your body, slowly. do not hurt yourself now, I do not want to be blamed for any injuries. ( kidding, a Little )
when you can train your mind to overcome the pain, you have already reached enlightenment.
Most Men won't commit... being absurdly honest, we don't grow up ever, the most to growing up we do is our bottles that we change. I think you have a beautiful personality, and one day, you'll be rewarded by HIM and yes I do mean our fellow man up there. -points up - Don't give up, Giving up only leads to regrets.
Good Luck hun~ :)0