I'm a 25-year-old virgin and I'm dating a guy in his 30s and i really like him (i had other bfs before but no real connections) and I really want to have sex with him, but i know that a girl's first time can be stressful to a guy.
If you dated a girl for a while, and she later told you (after you had lots of sex) that she was a virgin, would you be upset with her? Should I just come clean now? should I just take the secret to the grave?
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Part of being in a relationship is the various levels of intimacy you both reach together I'm not talking about sex right now I am talking bouth the intimacy of feelings and those shared feelings and the sharing of honesty. I have been with virgin woman before and contrary to your first thought it did not stress me out I felt very honored and humbled that they had chosen me for their first time. The relief that I saw on their faces was wonderful to think they had been carrying around this concern or fear that were afraid to share and once they had the releif was so apparent I felt so much empathy for them.
If you really like this guy and you really do want to have sex with him pleae tell him your a virgin I promise you he will not burst into flames his penis will not shrivel up and die on the vine.
I also promise you that if he really is the guy in your mind and heart that you feel he is your going ot find him to be even more tender and loving and respectful of you.
good luck honey
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