So I'm on a dating site for the first time in a while, and I realize that guys are soooo flaky, at least in my area. I'm sure women are too, but why do I have guys writing me these big long emails and when I respond and I'm friendly they disappear. It's not like I'm a psycho asking for their seed. It's regular introductions and then bam, they disappear. Why do guys go out of their way to talk to a woman just to flake a few messages in?
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I am on dating sites. My sister actually married a guy last June that she met on POF a few years ago. But she said, for women, 75% of the emails she got were either A) married guys looking for sex, B) single guys only looking for sex C) guys way too young D) black guys (we are white). This is pretty much what I have heard from the women I have dated. So they need to weed through all of those to find guy like me who are gentlemen and really sincere. Basically guys that do that are only out for sex and don't want to put any time in. They blanket email people and see who responds willing to have sex. then they don't bother with anyone who replies normally.
You just need to keep at it and trust your gut. I have had everywhere from first date sex that we never actually went on a date, after 5 days of super deep long (2-4 hrs texting or more each night) she invited me over for sex. but by that time we are like on date 4 or more... all the way to a woman that wouldn't even tell me where she lived until date 4. I completely understood that. Always meet him someplace until your comfortable.
just keep at it.0