So my boyfiend recently went to a trip to Colorado with his friends and I found out yesterday that he went to a strip club while he was there... We have talked about this and I told him I don't like those places because I feel it's disrespectful for him to go and he said he would never go to one until I went with him or approved for him to go.. But I don't know what to make of him going because I realized that him going didn't change him/who he is/how he is... by the way we have been dating for 2 years nd 8 months.. So girls how do you feel about your boyfriend going to strip clubs? And guys what are your thoughts on going to strip clubs while in a relationship?
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Well, I haven't ever been to a strip club, and I'd never to go one regardless of my relationship status. Adding money to sex like that just feels to cheap and demeaning. This is coming from my perspective though, and I know that others might (rightfully) feel differently.
With your guy and the situation you guys are in, I think you have every right to be upset to the point of considering a breakup. I mean, you told him that you didn't like it, and he agreed that he wouldn't go unless he spoke to you about it first.2