I have been talking to this guy for a year now about a relationship. I haven't seen him since we were kids. Every time I want to see him he comes up with a lame excuse. Why? Do you think he secretly has a girlfriend? Is he afraid I won't like him as much, he is insecure?
Most Helpful Girl
He doesn't want to be with you.
If he wanted to see you, he would make it happen. The effort you put into something is directly proportional to how much you want it. Little effort = you don't want it.
You need to stop investing into something that is giving no return and move on to a man/relationship that is profitable. There are lots of men out there that will be excited and willing to spend their time with you instead of just wasting your time by stringing you along.
Watch the movie He's Just Not that Into You. It will give you a good laugh.3