Does he want to touch my butt?

So me and my boyfriend are both Christians, and have been dating for almost two months. We have talked about our boundaries, and have both agreed not to go too far and that sex should be saved for marriage! We hold hands and have kissed and cuddled, but that's all. But yesterday, we were at a park in our town, and there wasn't anyone else around, and we were just goofing off and he kissed me and then we hugged. And he very slowly, as though he didn't want me to notice, slid his hand to the base of my back; not to my butt, but right there at it. I think he wanted to touch my butt, but I'm not sure. And i just want to know was it an innocent gesture, or is he wanting something more? We have had multiple conversations about our boundaries, and he knows what I believe and where I stand on sexual matters. He is my first boyfriend, so that's why i'm a little confused. Like is it normal and completely innocent, or is there a problem that I need to kindly address?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Butt touching doesn't mean it'll go further, it could just means he wants to get a handful of ass. If you're uncomfortable with him touching you there, make him aware of it. He's a guy, so yes, he does want to touch your ass.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Since you guys won't have sex, therefore I think he is craving fir something sexual and touching your butt or many things like this are his way to get closer with you as much as he can

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What Girls Said 2

  • He has natural erges but he did respect your boundary its good

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  • I agree with what was said below. He still has hormones and is a teenage boy. It doesn't seem like he would ever try to pressure you though into anything more.

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