I'm a few things but manly probably isn't one. I like cuddling and talking. I'm a shy virgin. I'm described as sensitive and sweet. I get on better with girls than guys. I dream of getting married and starting a family. Casual sex means nothing to me and emotional connection is my main priority. I focus on the girl's wants and needs and wouldn't do anything that she's uncomfortable with (meaning she has a more dominant position in the relationship).
What I want to know is should I act a little different to be attractive to women? Should I pretend that I'm not that interested in having a relationship so that I seem hard to get? Should I play down the parts of my personality that girls think are sweet?
1. I find it hard to be dominant when I'm mostly concerned with her happiness.
2. I worry that she won't feel that I'm the "man in the relationship". :/