Love honestly does not even seem worth it. After getting my heart broken by every single girl I have ever liked I feel like I would be content just being by myself. Instead of putting myself out there I feel like I shouldn't even try anymore. Does anyone else feel like this?
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Oh, most humans have at one point or another decided to give up on love.
I decided to give up on love many times... and then I met my wife. My aunt underwent a very bad marriage to someone who was mentally ill. He died, and she gave up on love. She them met my uncle when she was 40 and the two spent 46 of the best years of their lives together. My own mother was married to an abusive man and divorced him. She doubted she would ever find a good man. Then she met my father and spent 51 very good years with him.
The trick is to try to get as much out of life in between relationships and to learn something when relationships end, as the aforementioned people did. We must also be sure that our lives are amenable to having love in them. So what are you doing with your life to make it attractive to someone who could love you?2