today i was at the mall and saw this girl i know and her sister. they are both amazingly beautiful. we were walking towards each other and the moment one sister saw me, she turned around and said something to the other one and they both looked at me. i didn't stop and say anything because i was with my mom and thats awkward
we talked a little in high school, but we were never really friends. we always had a thing for each other i think
would it be creepy if i added her on Facebook, and messaged her?
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It won't be creepy as long as you don't say something along the lines of "Hey sexy, how you been?"
I personally delete all friend requests that say that. (I did even before I got in a relationship) But I guess it depends on the girl.
Try to be kind and sweet, and maybe mention that you guys used to talk in high school, and that you lost touch after that, but don't start out specifically saying that you want to start a relationship with her, or something like that. Try to see where she is in her life. Find out if she's single (usually in her Facebook profile, unless she set it to private) and get friended by her, then go from there. Mention that you think you saw her at the mall, but don't sound like a stalker. "I saw you at the mall, and followed you home and found out your name by standing outside your window until I heard your sister call your name." And make sure to pick one sister, not both. And only send one message with the friend request, not 50. Also, check your Facebook for anything that may look bad, and delete it. Go through your posts too. Before I add males to my Facebook friend list, I go through their profile pictures and posts to see if I actually know them, or if they're just adding me because they see a "sexy" person they think they can bone. Don't set your while profile to private though. Set it so she can see posts, but make sure that your posts are things you'd want her to see. Your Facebook profile is your new first interview... especially if she doesn't know/remember you too well. Good luck!!!1