I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for awhile. My parents are still iffy about him because he is in the military. I live at home still, so while I'm under their roof I have to obey their rules. My boyfriend wants me to spend the night at his house, not for sexual reaons but because he likes to cuddle and doesn't get to see me as much anymore because he has been busy with work. We just want a night to ourselves for once. My parents will not be cool with me staying there, but I really want to go. What excuse can I use? I really don't spend the night often at my friend's houses so I can't say I'm going to spend the night at so and so's house.
It really isn't for sex, It's just literally because we want to be able to fall asleep in each others arms for once.
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Looking to make up an excuse is the wrong way to go about it. And this is the reason why your parents won't let you go stay the night. If you want them to trust you all you have to do is be honest and show some responsibility. Just go over to his house but set a time that you and your parents agree on is acceptable for you to stay over. You don't have to stay all night to fall asleep in each others arms. I fall asleep on my boyfriend all the time just watching a movie. It could be a good compromise for both you and your parents. Hope everything works out, but don't lie.0