would you accept or decline?
would you think that he expects anything in return?
assuming you made your way to the date by yourself.
It wouldn't make sense if I drove my own car but otherwise it's not creepy at all unless you met online and you don't want him to know where you live.
hmm so having met online makes a huge difference when it comes to this?
Not necessarily but if you don't know the person well then it might be iffy
also if you´ve been texting for quite some time beforehand?
Here's what I think you should do. Before you guys go on your date, text her and offer her a ride. Say something like "hey, I can drive you home afterwards if you'd like :)" this way, it's not creepy because she gets to choose beforehand.
well she has the choice anyways :) i did it and she said no. same thing on the second date.
But did she drive her own car there? Or did she take a taxi or something? If she didn't use her own car or is getting picked up, sounds like she's not sure yet about you or simply is polite and doesn't want you to go out of your way.
she took public transportation. i knew where she aproximately lived and it was like an hour away for me anyway so the few minutes to her home were no big deal xD i know that she probably wasn´t sure, because we never had a third date (allthough she allways claimed she wanted)
Oh, well sorry to hear that. Sounds like she tried to let you down easy. But yeah, her not letting you drive her home was a sign she just wasn't sure about it.
wasn´t a big deal :D i would have done it even if she would flat out tell me she doesn´t like me. i just don´t get why she didn´t want to.
It's because she wasn't sure where the relationship was going/she didn't know you well enough/ she didn't trust you.
maybe i just don´t look trustworthy :D thanks for your input
Haha could be. Are you really tall? Could look intimidating. And yeah you're welcome! Hope it goes better for you the next time!
naw i am slightly below average size for a guy. but she was kind of small maybe 5 foot or less. thanks :)
Oh, okay. And yup, you're welcome :)
Thanks for MHO :)
you´re wellcome :)
Depends I would accept if I knew him from before that first date but if it was my first time meeting the guy on that first date I would decline.
imagine you would have texted a lot before (like months). would it still be the same
So it's your first time meeting In person ya I wouldn't offer her the ride yet.
hmm ok i just thought it would be nice if she had to wait for some busses and stuff otherwise.
Opinion
0Opinion
I would not accept. I could go by myself. I would say genuinely thank you. I would assume it was kind to ask , that is all about it.
but why would you not accept, if you thought it´s nice?
It was nice but early. I would accept but later. I guess I wouldn't feel comfortable at first.
ok :) thanks
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions