My fiancé and I fight constantly. His friend comes over to hang out sometimes and game with both of us. Now his friend is texting me (harmless things) and not him. We do have a lot more in common than my fiancé and I, but I don't want to go there. I mean, this guy is his friend but we have more in common and I'm beginning to think I may be getting feelings for him. Is there any way to tell if he likes me but is being respectful of the situation? I can give more details if needed, just really confused atm.
Uhm, HELP? I'm engaged but I might be in a bit of a situation?
What Guys Said 2
Chances are you and him will break if you get together and in be process you would of destroyed their friendship0
I'd say your best bet is to ask him straight up if you want to know. Forget looking for the subtle signs and trying to analyze his behavior. Find a good time where you're both alone or do it over texting. Just tell him that you would really appreciate an honest answer. Make him at ease by letting him know whatever the answer is, it can stay between the 2 of you. Now, he may still lie and tell you no, but at least it gives him a chance to answer. I would likely phrase the question like this. "So I've been wondering, we get along great and I've picked up a couple signs that maybe you're interested in me. Are you or would you not rather not answer since I'm engaged to xxx". If he says he'd rather not answer, chances are, there's some interest. I would avoid admitting developing feelings for him for now if you can, depending on his answer of course. He'll likely ask you why you want to know. If you feel like you can trust him, then let him know that you and your fiance argue constantly and you're starting to have doubts. If you think he'll likely tell your fiance about this conversation, just try to have fun with it and tell him it's funny/cute and flattering if he likes you.
From personal experience, me and this girl have become friends through her husband. They were just dating back then. Over the years, we've become best friends her and I. I had gfs, they've been together for a long time now and married a couple years ago. I recently found out that she's had a crush on me for a long time and chances are, if she could do it over again, she'd be with me now instead of him. They argue constantly, always have. She's sick of it, she's too scared to divorce. She said she always believed she'd only marry once and she feels the need to stick it out. It's kind of heartbreaking on my part because I had a crush on her for a long time too. I just kept it to myself because it was wrong. I only admitted it when she started flirting with me and told me about hers.1
What Girls Said 3
Ask yourself the questions of if you think your engagement and possible future marriage is worth throwing away? And if your okay with destroying a friendship? You have to remember you said yes to the guy that your engaged to right now and you said yes for a reason. Don't destroy a future with someone and a friendship just because you guys argue and someone on the outside looks better. That's not fair to him but honestly I would say you break it off or let him know and see what he decides because it might be a future of problems if this kind of thing keeps going.0
well do you like this guy more than ur fiancé?0
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