I don't know why but I have never been attracted to black women. I've never made an active descis ion not to be I'm just not. An i'm attracted to almost every other ethnicity so it's confusing to me. I guess it's because what I find the most attractive in a girl is her hair and skin and eyes. And I mean the eyes are obviously fine. And I've never been a fan of curly hair and dark skin regardless of race. In fact Im very attravted to very pale skin (might be because Im quite pale myself) so Im even a bit unattracted to very suntanned european women. It just happens that most black/African women have this look naturaly. How do I make myself think different? I also don't wanna start dating these women just to not seem racis to other people that's just dumb. And Im also quite average attractive wise and the only black women I find attractive (because there's of course still millions of them that are even to me) are wayyyy above my league so I might as well date a girl of another race with average looks that I still find about as attractive but might actually like me back. I guess it's also that I'm very unattracted by the idea or having children with someone that will make them not look like me even in the slightest. But then again I'm sure there are millions of African women that feel the exact same problems that I said but about European/white guys so maybe I'm overthinking it? Can someone please still give me tips I wanna be open minded.
Most Helpful Girl
The black women that you consider way above your league are they dark in complexion? Because I'm confused you said you didn't like any race with tan or darker pigment. (It just so happens that no matter the shade of a black person , even if they are light, they are still a lot darker than whites ).
I don't think you are racist because you don't have extreme hate for a race.
You just simply aren't attracted.
You have a preference.
I think you are trying to be open minded but in your case, I don't think it will work.
If I were only attracted to muscular guys.
And forced myself to be attracted to a non-fit guy.
I would probably create all sorts of problems in our relationship because I genuinely didn't like this person, and only wanted to go out with him to try to be different.
Sometimes you can't control what you like.1
- Show AllShow Less