I started talking to this girl about six weeks ago. It's all gone really well and there is a lot of chemistry. But tonight I told her I like her and she replied saying that she likes me too and "thinks I'm really cool and that she gets really nervous around me" but would want to get to know me better before jumping into a relationship.
Are responses like this legitimate or are they just really polite rejections?
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This sounds exactly like what I just told a guy I'm seeing, and I really like him, so I don't think it's a rejection at all. You even said “there’s a lot of chemistry and it’s going well”. This is probably scary to her and she doesn’t want to move too fast. I’m not kidding when I say I’m literally going through this right now and it terrifies me how good it’s going that I don’t want to get my hopes up or have too high of expectations, so she is probably just letting you know that she wants to continue seeing you but that it’s still early and she wants to know you better. That is GOOOD!!!1
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