I had to cancel a date with her since my cat is sick and dying. I can't leave her alone.
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If she is understanding, if she is any kind of girl who may even be a keeper or simply ends up to be a friend till the end, she will not Only 'Understand' but be there for you on the other end, texting you or even calling you to see how You are and How 'My sick and dying' kitty is as well... and even after the fact, be your life support when you need a little comforting.
I'm so sorry for your pain. I am a cat lover and can relate to this. You have every right to Cancel Anything out right now and if no one would Understand Why when it comes to this, then they don't need to be part of your life or Added strife.
Good luck and my blessings go with you... xx0