I've been dating a man for a month now and things have been going really well. We have a lot of chemistry and we're really attracted to each other. It's an introvert so most of our time together is spent at his house (which it fine with me). We having had sex yet (which is what I wanted and he agreed) but we have fooled around and I've stayed over his place a couple of times. And he's 10 years older than me.
Before this week we would text everyday and he would mostly text me first (I texted first maybe 3 or 4 times). Now this week I've found myself contacting him first and I had to ask him out for this Saturday. I'm not all that experienced in relationships but I kinda feel unconformable doing that. I just want to know that he's thinking of me.
We met on POF and he knows that my main objective is "to find someone to marry". He's even asked me if I wanted kids on our second date so he knows where my head is at.
When I see him this weekend I plan to just "check-in" just to make sure we're on the same page as far as what we want out of this. I'm not asking him define the relationship, I just want to ask if we're still going down that path.
Do you think I'm asking too much too soon? It's not like he disappeared on me. It just sort of shocked me that he didn't contact me first this week.
Also, I should say that he DID contact me first on Tuesday.
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Just enjoy the dating phase.
There's chances he is seeing someone else... so don't limit your options to him.
If he mentions he is exclusively dating you, then you do the same.
I would just ask us where we stand as of now, and what does he see coming out of this relationship?
I wouldn't expect him to say marriage so early on, but I would expect him to say he is interested in me as far as relationship wise.
If he answers that way, then you both are on the same page.
I would give it a few more dates until he made it official.0