This is what’s wrong with people encouraging and promoting the concept of ‘preference’. He’s probably been telling himself that it’s okay to favor and value one body type higher than another because “it’s his preference” and now look at how it’s effecting your level of confidence. -_- Because you know he’s been feeding himself images of beauty that you don’t embody so by default, you feel like choice #2. Not cool. *sighs* Men really need to be more careful with a woman’s self-esteem. This is the type of situation that can lead to eating disorders or a serious unappreciation for your own beauty.
It’s not a good feeling when the man you want or even love suggests that you inherited the wrong traits because _____ is more attractive. *So irritated with him for voicing that like wtf that’s like you saying you prefer d*cks that are ____, opposite to his, but you still “love him”. Whoops he just inherited the wrong genetic make-up* It’s tough girl, but you just have to love yourself no matter what. You have to find a divine appreciation for your unique physicality and don’t let anyone’s views, opinions, or words take away from that love. Enjoy the way certain cuts of clothing fit on your body. Enjoy the way your tits jiggle *I sure as hell do ; )* Physically touch your body when you step out of the shower, not sexually, but just to get comfortable with the sensation of your body’s uniquely intricate map. The only cure to something like this is extreme, intense confidence, internal beauty, and sex appeal that trumps even the hottest body!! Chin up, you are lovely.
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If he is with you than he clearly loves you but be clear with him that when he's looking at the menu you don't need to know what he'd prefer to eat.
I use to have that problem as well and if he loves you he will respect that you don't want to hear about "his type of girl" any more tell him to be happy with you the way you are or get lost. Because even though people are on here saying you shouldn't worry about, you really should because it is your mental health this is effecting and your self esteem not his. Tell him he can look but you don't need to know if he likes what he see's he shouldn't be telling you this.
You shouldn't be upset, he's with you for a reason. Being skinny would just be an additional plus, but he obviously is open minded about the body shapes of the women he dates. Dream girls don't have to fit he criteria to be a dream. Jesus, you two have been dating for three years? If he wasn't digging your body and the soul within, he would have ended it in the first 6 months.
You've never seen a man with a better body than your boyfriend? Statistically speaking I'm sure you have. Did you love your boyfriend any less because of it? He wouldn't be with you if he wasn't attracted to you at all. There needs to be attraction to get a relationship started to begin with. I think you're overreacting a bit. I wouldn't mind if my gf found guys more attractive than me because they're out there. It's just a reality. People can be atteacted to different body types.
Ok. Listen and listen good. If a guy is with you, it's because he's into you. All of you. he tells you that he likes your body. That doesn't mean he can never be interested in different things.
Just like you can LOVE Italian food, but also like Chinese food.
If he's been with you three fucking years, that should be enough for your ego.
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How do you feel about guys who look like the hollywood hunks?
I am sure he doesn't look anything like these guys, but it doesn't mean you don't find him attractive.
His preference doesn't dictate how he feels about you. You obviously have some features he likes about you, or he wouldn't be with you.Girl, fuck him.. he tell you that? Leave him and let him use his left hand. Obviously he prefers that over your figure.
You look like a 007 girl big hip, according your description, fantastic gorgeous girl.
at least he's honest... but if your his chosen one then you are the top
Maybe he just likes you for you. Guys really aren't that shallow. We say we are, but we really aren't
be tiny or dump him
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