I didn't want to state my race or the race of those I'm drawn to at the moment in hopes of avoiding full on conflict.
I don't know why, but as of lately, my friend and I have been going through this phase where we're like all about interracial dating. But i think some people take it as we're racist against our own race. But thats not the case. Like this may sound impossible, but we haven't seen many attactive dudes (of our race) at school. Like the cute ones are usually younger than us or like players and stuff. And well, the other race, some of them are this same way, but very few. Like I don't know, i just don't get it. I was all about my race in elemenrary and high school with potential crushing on other races, but in this college scene, there is just so much more to it. Like I don't want to make it about color but it always is. So I don't know what exactly I'm asking here, but any of you going through an interracial phase at the moment... And unfortunately being judged?
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I'm African American and all my life everyone I know has always said that I'd be with a white guy. No idea why but that's just what they say so I've never had anyone judge me for dating outside my race because it's what they expected so I get the complete opposite. But it does happen that black men say I'm not woman enough to handle a black man or I'm not a true black woman which I think is stupid because I've dated in my race as well. I've honestly dated the freaking rainbow and I really don't give a shit what most people say about my relationship because their not in MY relationship it's my personal choice and if I spent all my life worrying about the color of a mans skin I may never find the man that I want. So I say screw everyone else's opinion your preference is your preference do what you want.3
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